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If design had a heart
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Summary
So how can we intentionally design systems that speak to the very core of human emotions? How should we prioritize emotional attachment and a sense of belonging over basic user liking? Today, we have many functional and forgettable products that feel ‘cold’. This talk will look at design through the lens of ‘warmth’. Through real UX examples, you’ll learn how to design experiences people don’t just enjoy but trust and return to them.
Key Insights
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Joyful design centers on eliciting love and belonging from users, tapping into deep emotional and sensory experiences.
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Business language focusing on 'users' and 'targets' objectifies people and distances design from authentic human connection.
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Fear, not hate, is the neuroscientific opposite of love, and fear-based thinking dominates business environments.
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Most personas assume purely rational customers, ignoring emotional, spiritual, and sensory dimensions of humans.
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Simple, natural language resonates more deeply with users than complex, jargon-heavy business speak.
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Embedding vulnerability and honesty into product and brand communication fosters stronger emotional bonds.
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Multi-sensory design considering more than just visual and auditory elements can deepen brand love.
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AI risks becoming sycophantic if designed to always affirm users, potentially harming ethical use and trust.
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Designers should pair traditional efficiency metrics with companion human-centric metrics to balance business goals with wellbeing.
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Preparing for cognitive agents requires understanding and designing around emotional persona, trust, and decision-making.
Notable Quotes
"This is exactly what joy feels like. This is exactly what love feels like."
"Why in user experience do we have the word user? Isn’t it going away from love?"
"Fear is the opposite of love, not hate."
"You’re objectifying you when you say I love you. Love is oneness, not separation."
"Our brains are like Ferrari with several petabytes of memory, but most of our thoughts are negative."
"Processed language is like processed food; it damages our mind as processed food damages our body."
"Apple Care is not warranty because care means connection; love is earned, not extracted."
"AI should be your friend, not your sycophant."
"For every business metric, there is always a companion human-centric metric."
"Create islands of joy at work, because everybody in this world is yearning for happiness."
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