Key Insights

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  Self-care and self-soothing are distinct: self-care supports long-term wellbeing, while self-soothing addresses immediate distress.

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  Community care acts as a vital bridge, allowing individuals to support each other's capacity for self-care and self-soothing.

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  Structural care involves systemic reforms that enable sustainable wellbeing beyond individual or community efforts.

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  Capitalism’s exploitative nature fundamentally conflicts with genuine care systems.

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  Communities of color often embed care practices into social movements more deeply than mainstream white-led movements.

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  Burnout is tied to outdated values of sacrifice and hustle; newer generations prioritize healthier integrations of work and care.

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  Activism encompasses diverse roles—direct action, support, financial contributions—and no role is insignificant or lesser.

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  Toxic optimism oversimplifies human experience and can hinder authentic coping and systemic change.

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  Movement-building includes practices like grief work, body movement, and relational culture to sustain activists holistically.

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  Long-term collaboration, like Deanna’s 17 years with Jim Hightower, demonstrates how relationships and joy sustain social justice work.

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